Whiwhi i te whakarere, e kore he ngāwari engari te haere i roto i te kotahi a, no te koe e matara atu i te kāinga ko te uaua rawaMō te nuinga o te iwi, te kimi i te pono, i te tika, tohutohu ture ko tetahi o nga tamataraa nui ki te whāwhā i te faataaraa i roto i te China. Waimarie, kua kitea e koe i tenei whārangi, me te inaianei te pai i runga i te ara ki te matauranga te mea to koutou he kōwhiringa, me te aha kia meatia e koutou i muri. Flora e wātea ana ki whakahoki koutou pātai i roto i te rua tekau ma wha haora i tino kahore he utu ki a koutou, kia kaua e mangere, ki te tiki i roto i te pa.
He mea nui ki te rapu i te tīmatanga o te tohutohu mai i tētahi rōia i mua i tomo i roto i ki whakataunga kōrero ki tou hoa faaipoipo.
He mātanga o te ao rōia ture utuafare e te e taea ki te tohutohu a koutou i o koutou pūtea e te faturaa, me te pea te putanga o te faataaraa i roto i te China, rite te ātete ki tetahi atu whenua. He mea tino nui ki te tiki i tēnei mōhiohio i te wā wawe i roto i te tikanga ki te hanga i te whakatau. He tangata ke te hunga e moe i te Tuawhenua Hainamana tangata rānei i roto i te China ranei ki waho ka taea e te tiki i te faataaraa i roto i te China, ara, ki te kahore ano hoki hoa faaipoipo i tēnei wā i te oraraa i roto i te China. E rua s, moe rānei i roto i te China ranei i roto i tetahi atu whenua, e taea te tiki i whakarerea i roto i te China e whakaratohia ana e ratou te whakatau i te torutoru taketake tikanga. (Nui atu i runga i tenei Noa'tu o te wahi e ua faaipoipo, expat faaipoipo e taea te tiki i whakarerea i roto i te China. I roto i te nuinga o te wā, he momo motuhake o te kōti tikanga i whakamahia. I roto i te tikanga ki te kōnae mō te faataaraa i roto i te China e whai koe ki te whakatau i te torutoru whakaritenga basic: - Noa'tu o koutou iwi, i te whakarere i whakaputaina i roto i te China, ko te ture me te mana puta noa i te ao. Kotahi te whakarere whawha i roto i te China, e kore koe e hiahia ki te mahi i te reira ano i roto i to koutou whenua te kāinga. (Ako atu Ia take he rerekē, engari i roto i te ringa o te mātanga Chinese whakarere, me te rōia ture utuafare i te whakarere i waenganui i te rua te tangata ke e taea te oti i roto i te mana'o, e rua ka taea e hoa faaipoipo te haere mai ki te whakaaetanga i runga i te tetahi tino take e pā ana ki o ratou wehenga. Te riroraa i te ao mohio expat rōia whakarere, Flora, ko te nuinga o te wā e taea ana ki te whai i te whakarere whakapumautia i muri tonu i te kōti, te whakakore i te wiki o te tatari mo te whakawa ki te kia whakaputaina. A, no te haere mai te reira ki te expat te faataaraa i roto i te China, wheako, ko te take matua i roto i te haapapū i te hua pai. I te tikanga ki te whakamahi - ka i reira kia pehea te roa o te tukanga tango - tei runga i te kōrero o koutou āhuatanga. Ka haere matou i runga i ngā momo e rua o te faataaraa i roto i te torutoru noa taime. Te whakarere mahi i roto i te China, ko tika i roto i te tahi atu whenua rite te pai, (tae atu ki te katoa o Europe, US, Canada, Aotearoa me Ahitereiria). Ia whenua kua ratou ake ture mō te 'whakawhiti' he whakawa i tetahi whenua ki tetahi. He faataaraa whakawa rēhita ranei ōkawa mohio i roto i to koutou whenua te kāinga ko te tikanga tino māmā (i roto i te tahi mau fenua no te tahi atu mau kaupae e ara te hiahiatia), engari te tangohia te tukanga e rerekē atu i tetahi whenua ki te muri. Te whakarere i te kawenata, ko e taea, no te taha e rua ki te faaipoiporaa e hiahia ana koe, ranei i te iti rawa te whakaae, ki te tiki i whakarerea. I roto i te whakaae kia whakarere te rōpū kei te te tikanga free ki te whakarite i te tamaiti, me te spousal support payments, te tika te tirohanga mai, me te wehenga o te tahi faaipoiporaa rawa (i.e. real estate, taonga, te moni, te haumi, etc.) kahore tetahi pokanoa i te Hainamana whakawa. Ki te i te faaipoiporaa i te tuatahi whakamana i roto i China, a kotahi te tau i te mea he Hainamana te tangata, te 'a faaite i' te whakarere tukanga ko te maha e taea. Hei utu, te faataaraa rēhita ki te rohe Chinese Faaipoiporaa e te Tari Rehita (i te mea he tari i roto i te rohe Civil Affairs Bureau), me te whakarere tiwhikete i whakaputaina (nui atu i te ōkawa marae-puta whakarere mai). Kia e te tika te ture ōkawa e oti, e te whakarere he tomo ki roto ki te tuhi me te faaipoiporaa ko te mana rewa. Na te roa rite ki te hono e ahei te haere mai ki te whakaaetanga i runga i te pehea, ki te whakatau i a ratou take, i tenei tukanga e taea e te nuinga o te wā e oti āhua hohoro, engari i te reira e taea anake te whakamahi i roto i te etahi tino māmā āhuatanga (me te expat e kore e taea e faaipoipo te whakamahi i te reira i te katoa). Ko reira tino noa hoki ki te expat faaipoipo e noho ana i roto i China ki te kōnae mō te whakarere i te tonu i runga i ngā hoa. Ko e mo'oni, te hunga faaipoipo nei e waimarie nui ki te e taea ki te mahi i roto i te katoa i te pai piro o te whakarere, me te hoatu ki a ratou i roto i te tuhituhi te nuinga o te wā mutu ake te tiaki i te nui o te wā, me te kaha. I roto i enei āhuatanga, ki te whakarere, e kore te whakaaro 'tahi', engari no te mea o te ture motuhake te tono ki te ke faaipoipo, te Hainamana marae kei te tonu te kawenga mō te whakaoti i te whakarere. Te ture te tikanga e whakamahia ana kei te karangatia e te 'whakarere whakataunga haamauraa' (te tino i te friendlier, ngāwari ture tukanga ko te tono i runga i te pūkete o te tokorua whakaae koe ki te whakarere). Ahakoa tū tonu whakarōpūtia rite te ture, i roto i te mahi katoa e tupu ana ko te marae i whakapaia e he rite tuhituhia whakaaetanga i hanga tahi e te hoa faaipoipo, me waha haapapu ngā meka e pā ana ki te faaipoiporaa, me te āhua o te ngakau o te rōpū. I te mutunga o te tukanga i te marae ka puta te 'civil takawaenga tauākī', i te mea te momo o te whakawa. Tenei ōkawa ki te tuhinga ture tavini rite te tohu o te whakarere, me te ko te tika i te ao. Hei wāhanga o te tukanga whakarere, he mātanga Chinese whakarere rōia tonu, ka tango i te tiaki o te tuhia e koe te whakarere whakaaetanga (i roto i te reo pākehā me te Hainamana), me te faaineine i te tokorua mō te kōti, i roto i tua atu ki te haere ki te kōti. Kia mea te reira heahea ki te ui, engari i roto i te meka tenei i puta ke tatau mo te rota, no reira haere mai ki te whakamutu i te hononga. Couples nei e te ture marena e taea te whakaputa rānei ki te wehe i te wā poto, me te tūmanako te houhanga rongo ranei haere i mua, me te whiwhi i te ki tonu i, me te whakamutunga te whakarere, e te tikanga tūturu i mutu i te faaipoiporaa i roto i te ture te tikanga. Te ture whiwhi i whakarere ko te ara anake ki te tūturu te whakamutu i te faaipoiporaa e hiahiatia ana i roto i te tikanga ki te kati. (ko te tikanga, i waenganui i tetahi ki te rima tau), ko te e hiahiatia ana i mua i te tokorua e taea te tono mo te whakarere.
China kua kahore ture wehenga i ngā whakaritenga, me te reira te mea e tika ana ki te rēhita tou wehenga ki te marae.
e me ki te kia tutaki e i te iti rawa kotahi te hoa, - i mua i te reira ko e taea ki te kōnae mo te expat te faataaraa i roto i te China. Mō te noho ki te tatau, ki te whakatutuki i te whakaritenga, ko te ture me te verifiable (ki te rēhita ki te rohe pirihimana i te teihana a, no te neke koe ki tou wāhitau o nāianei, koutou pea te whai i te tuhinga e hiahiatia ana kua oti kē). Ki te marenatia koe ki te he Hainamana te tangata, kahore he kainoho whakaritenga ki te faataaraa i roto i te China. Te wahi kotahi anake te hoa faaipoipo e hiahia ana ki te mutunga o te faaipoiporaa, ki te whakarere, me te whakahaere i roto i te marae. Mā te kahore he whakaaetanga i mua, i te marae e whakatau me pēhea te ki te whakatau i te katoa ngā take, tae atu. Tetahi ngā āhuatanga o te Hainamana litigated te whakarere i te mea i te arotahi ki te whakanohoia e te marae i runga i te ngana ana ki te haumaru mō tētahi whakataunga. Ko te tikanga e korero ana, i te whakawa, i te maha ngā puta noa i te whakawakanga, tukanga, ui te hoa faaipoipo, ki te whakatau i te mea rite ki te whaitake pea me, ki te pera, ki te ratou hiahia ki te whakawhiti ki te marae-whakaaetia ki te tamata me te whakatau ratou rerekētanga. O te akoranga, ki te te hononga ko te tino acrimonious, ranei, ki te takawaenga i te kore ki te whakaora i te tau, i te marae, kotahi ano te tango i runga i te take, me te take i te whakamutunga whakawa. He totohe whakarere, ka homai e te Hainamana marae a, no te i te iti rawa tetahi o te whai ake nei tikanga e taea e makona: - Rite i roto i te nga whenua, i te litigated whakarere he tino uaua ake atu i te consensual kotahi. Ka tangohia te reira roa, me te utu atu ki te hapai i atu i te consensual whakarere. Ko te tikanga e korero ana, kahore he mea pehea aue te rerekētanga titiro ai, ko te tata tonu te whakaaro pai ki te tamata me te mutunga o te faaipoiporaa i roto i te iho, ka whakarere ai. Tou Chinese rōia e taea te o te akoranga e ārahi koe i roto i tenei tukanga Ka hiahia koe ki te mana kāwanatanga o te tuhi tiwhikete tō faaipoiporaa i roto i te tikanga ki te hapai i te faataaraa i roto i te China.
Ko te tikanga tenei o te tiwhikete whiwhi koe i tou āhua ranei kāwanatanga ā-a, no te ka koe i te moe.
Ki te mea kua ngaro ranei i te kore koutou e whai te uru ki te te reira, he hou te tārua o te tiwhikete e taea te whakahau i te kāwanatanga e hāngai ana i te tari (e taea hoki e tatou te hapai i tenei mo koutou). Ki te i koe faaipoipo i roto i te China, e taea e tatou e te tauturu ki a koe te tiki i te mana tārua o to outou faaipoiporaa rēhita i ngā pūkete i te Civil Affairs Bureau te wahi i te faaipoiporaa i ravehia, e taea e mahi rite ki te whakakapinga mō te tiwhikete taketake (i.e. te whero te faaipoiporaa pukapuka) Flora ko Haina te tino mātanga o te ao whakarere rōia a ia kei nga wa katoa e wātea ana ki te āwhina ia koe no mea te wahi e kei a koe ranei te wahi i a koutou ka moe.
